Junction of choices.

What we are now is what we are meant to be. There is no other place or point that we were “supposed” to be. That just is how life is. If we had the cheat codes for the game, then what is the point in playing the game. If we know every expected outcome of our choices then how are we actually “living” life.

We have been to points of life where we made big choices. We traveled down a path. It cannot be undone. Walking back to the previous point in our life, last junction we passed, does not take away the experience you gained by the trip you had. You just went back to a previous stage where you are able to take another choice than the previous one. What is done is done. What we passed is passed. Walking back changes nothing. The experience from the trip tho does teach us things. Never feel sorry for the choices you made. The choices were true and right for what you believed in at that moment of choice. But what matters in the choice making is how well you listened to the truth that was whispered to you from your inner self.

Others advising you on choices are based on their truths. Their truths are not yours. But when you realize that the path you took does not hold your truth anymore, then you should travel back. Go back to that point of junction of choice where you can take a different path. The experience gained is never a waste. There are people who say that a wise one learns from others experience. But there are a lot of things that others cannot learn by just watching someone else’s experience. Take your time to make decisions, yes. And if you did listen to your inner self and made a choice then do not ever think you made a mistake. Remember there are no mistakes other than doing what you thought should be done and yet you do not do it. What more error can you do in your life more than actually not listening to yourself?

The life you live is yours. Others are living their life. They are taking care of theirs. Why should they live for you, and you live for them? We all have our own roles to play in this life. Roles that we must complete, roles that makes us us. Why try to play someone else’s role? Be the individual you are, and listen to your inner self and be brave to make choices. Choices that would make you grow, that brings you to perfection.