Thursday, February 14, 2008

Should I stay or should I go?

One of the hardest parts of a relationship is letting go. How do we know that it is time?
When answering this question, ask your self, “Am I happy?”

People tend to believe that we should be in a relationship all of our lives. The normal motto is “until death do us part.” (In the physical sense) But we believe emotionally and mentally as well. If you find that you are no longer happy, you both have tried all that you can to save the relationship, and it just can not be done, then its time to move on. The biggest clue that it is time to move on is the decrease in happiness experienced. Irregardless of the length of the relationship, one year or fifty, if you find that you are no longer happy, then that is a sign that its time to move on.

Remember your purpose. We are here to grow.

Every relationship that we are involved in, are stepping stones towards being the best that we can be. When it gets to the point, if ever, that we are moving backwards rather than forwards, then it is time to let go.

Remember to follow yourself, your consciousness, your guide. Don’t allow others opinions of how you should live your life, what is right or wrong, guide you. Let your inner self guide you. Listen to what it says. If it says its time to move on, then its time to move on. Don’t linger, or find excuses. Allow yourself to leave, so that you can continue with your growth. Only by letting go, can you begin to connect to happiness once more. Irregardless of what society or everyone else thinks. Be you.

Let happiness guide you in all that you do. Do whatever it is that makes you happiest at each moment. This happiness is love. This love, is God.

Namaste.